Safer Sex Tips
- BYOC (Bring your own condom).
- Determine your limits and boundaries around safer sex in advance.
- Avoid getting so drunk or high that your judgment fails you.
- Make safer sex a part of sex, not an interruption.
- Choose sex partner(s) who are partners in safer sex too.
- Be comfortable and able to talk about sex and sexual health with partner(s).
- If you find these conversations difficult, don’t feel bad; practice with a friend and remember these conversations are to help keep you and your partner safe and healthy.
Know Your Sexual Risk
It is important to remember that different sexual activities carry different risks. Some diseases, such as gonorrhea and chlamydia are mainly spread through unprotected oral, vaginal or anal sex, while others, such as herpes and HPV are spread through skin-to-skin contact. Sexual fluids (vaginal fluid and semen) transmit many STIs from person to person and generally require penetrative sexual activities (oral, vaginal or anal sex) for transmission to occur. Skin-to-skin transmission of some STIs does not require penetrative sex and can be spread through other sexual activity such as mutual masturbation or body contact.
Know your body
Regularly inspecting your sex organs, vagina, penis and anus, so that you will notice any changes promptly. If possible, get to know your partner’s body similarly, so you can alert them to any changes
Sexual health conversations can be awkward and uncomfortable, especially with someone you don’t know very well. But, having them is the responsible choice. Your partner(s) deserve your honesty—and you deserve it from them
Be screened regularly
You shouldn’t wait until you are experiencing symptoms of an STI to get tested, a full screen may include tests for HIV, hepatitis B & C, herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis. Many people think these tests are being conducted at a yearly physical or whenever blood is drawn; this is not the case, to get such testing you need to specifically request this from you medical provider or visit an STI clinic. Make testing a part of your regular health maintenance routine. A sexually active person, even one in a relationship, should be screened every year (or more frequently if you have higher risk factors such as multiple sex partners, unprotected sex, or have had sexual contact with someone known to be HIV positive or have an STI), and screened again if symptoms of an STI are present. You and your partner can make a date out of it. Bring snacks, hold hands, it’s probably cheaper than a movie.
The connection between HIV and other STIs:
Acquiring another STI increases your risk of acquiring HIV, for two main reasons:
Being HIV positive can increases your risk of acquiring a variety of infections including other STIs. HIV compromises the human immune system leaving a person more susceptible to infection and engaging in unprotected sex can lead to other STIs which could be harder for the body to respond to and treat.
- Many STIs compromise your skin and can create open sores or lesions. The skin is the body’s main defense mechanism against infection and having in-tact healthy skin creates a barrier that prevents transmission of HIV.
- Most STIs provoke an immune response in the form of an influx of CD4/T-cells to the genitals. These are the cells that HIV needs to connect with in the human body to reproduce and infect the body.
Where can I get FREE traditional condoms?
Condoms and safer sex kits are available for FREE at our Northside office:
4138 Hamilton Avenue
Cincinnati, OH 45223
Additional local locations that offer FREE traditional condoms:
- C&D Bar - 1714 Hanfield NORTHSIDE
- Tillie's Lounge – 4042 Hamilton Ave NORTHSIDE
- Main Event – 835 Main Street DOWNTOWN
- Bar 901 – 901 Race Street DOWNTOWN
- The Birdcage – 927 Race Street DOWNTOWN
- Below Zero Lounge - 1120 Walnut Street OVER-THE-RHINE
- Trans Wellness Center - 6566 Montgomery Road KENNEDY HEIGHTS
- Old Street Saloon - 13 Old Street MONROE, OH
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